Anyone? Anyone?

Are you out there?  I love chatting my fingers off about the things that interest me-but I'd love for this to be a little more interactive.  Does anyone have a question/comment/suggestion for a post?   I want this to be a place where you can ask questions or just talk about things you may be hesitant to talk about elsewhere.  Shoot me an email or make a comment! Come on people!! :D  Anonymity is the name of the game if that is your pleasure. 

Halloween has come and gone and as I have previously posted-that means great bedroom attire!  There are some great costumes out there that you may think are too risque for normal wear, but they make some awesome lingerie!  Check out some of the Halloween websites and you can find some good deals since it's right after the holiday.  Love it!!  Will you be the saucy pirate?  Naughty Grecian princess?  There's TONS of possibilities.

What do you want to try?

Okay, let's get down to it.  What do you really like or wish you could try with your partner?  I think this can be a great way to offer ideas to other like-minded people.  I think role-playing can be SO much fun!  When you've been with the same person for so long it is really easy to get into a routine and let the heat fizzle.  I love going on a date with my DH and start asking him about himself. (how many kids in his family, his interests, etc.)  It's fun to feel like you're learning new things about each other and remember that feeling from when you first got together. 

There's lots of other ways to bring new excitment into your sex life as well.  Depending on what does it for you there's everything from a new position, lingerie, or even toys.  (there's a full spectrum of tame to crazy out there.)  Mixing it up can be great!  What do you do to feel that heat again?  Do you ever have the problem of feeling like you're having sex just because you're supposed to, instead of the desire to please each other?  Let's talk about it!  This is the place for it people!

Sweet way to get lingerie

You know how there's all those sexy little halloween costumes out there that you would never wear in public?  Well they are a great way to pump up your lingerie wardrobe!  If you watch those post-halloween sales where all the halloween stuff is like 75% off then you can get some serious role-playing props!  :)

I encountered a friend of mine who had a total misconception of how conservative her husband was.  It was interesting because both members of the relationship thought the other person was very straight laced and had no interest in trying new things.  After this woman realized she had misread her husband she asked me how to break the ice.  I gave her a few ideas of how to show him that she wasn't as reserved as he thought she was.  It ought to be interesting to see how it plays out for them.  Do you ever feel like your relationship might be like that?  Sometimes I think we have these preconceived notions about our parterns, or ourselves, and not ever realize our full potential in our relationship.  How sad!