Just Do It.

I'm not purposely ripping off a popular slogan from years ago, I swear.  I'm referring to sex. Sometimes life just gets in the way of having a good sex life.  As the beginning of a relationship it may drive your time with your significant other and be the way to want to pass the time-while burning calories :). As a relationship settles into a routine sex can fall by the wayside as a recreational activity and become viewed as work; and all you want after a hard day is to add another thing to your "to-do" list.  I've realized that I may be dead tired, my DH is needing some loving, I'm not feeling the urge and it's easy to play the "I'm too tired" card; but it's important not to do this.  When one person in the relationship makes the effort to get the mood right or just to move in that direction, it's important to try and feel that and go with it.  You may not feel the desire--at first.  It seems like if I go with it and indulge my hubby when he's pining for a little loving--by the time we're into it I realize I needed it and am enjoying it as much as he is! 

So instead of wrapping up tight and giving your lover the cold shoulder; bring them in close and remember those hot nights that you craved.  Let it get started and then enjoy the ride as you enjoy that most special time with your lover!

Being a good girl

I've devoted this blog to exploring the sexual side of a good girl. It's not about turning yourself from a good girl into something else. On the contrary, it is all about being a good girl and learning to embrace your sexual self and enjoy it. So what I'd love to hear from you are questions, stories, comments, etc. about the sexual challenges and successes of being a good girl. Would you like ideas on how to spice up your relationship? How to feel more comfortable with yourself? How to try to get over the guilt that can come with the embedded "sex is bad" mentality? Ask me or tell me anything with complete confidentiality. Let's help each other out girls!