My first follower!!!

Guess what readers!  I got my first follower today!  WOOHOOO!!!!  I know this blog isn't extremely well known yet, but I LOVE knowing that there are people reading and responding to my posts.  This is a subject that needs to be discussed but we tend be embarassed about it.  I want this to be a safe place where we can be honest and work on opening up and enjoying a great part of ourselves.  Pass the blog on to others and lets get some more followers.  YAY!!!

What do you want to try?

Okay, let's get down to it.  What do you really like or wish you could try with your partner?  I think this can be a great way to offer ideas to other like-minded people.  I think role-playing can be SO much fun!  When you've been with the same person for so long it is really easy to get into a routine and let the heat fizzle.  I love going on a date with my DH and start asking him about himself. (how many kids in his family, his interests, etc.)  It's fun to feel like you're learning new things about each other and remember that feeling from when you first got together. 

There's lots of other ways to bring new excitment into your sex life as well.  Depending on what does it for you there's everything from a new position, lingerie, or even toys.  (there's a full spectrum of tame to crazy out there.)  Mixing it up can be great!  What do you do to feel that heat again?  Do you ever have the problem of feeling like you're having sex just because you're supposed to, instead of the desire to please each other?  Let's talk about it!  This is the place for it people!